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Chit Chat #1 || What people think about you is invalid

Hello my blog friends! Your girl is back with a new series “Chit Chat”. I will be posting some life talks and issues on my blog often in this category. So today’s chit chat is what people think about you is invalid.

These days I see so many posts on how you feel about yourself, people’s opinion about you, self love and all. So I decided to talk about this controversial issue. So many people in the world are often concerned about what people think about them in general. I have also seen some people go extra mile to change themselves because of what a particular person says about them. The truth is that what people think about you is invalid.

There are cases where someone can make you feel bad about your looks, character or way of life. People tend to look for ways to draw other people down by their actions or words. Imagine a situation whereby lady A is a calm and gentle person and everyone around her starts to question her that she’s too boring and no fun because of her way of life. They tell her to let loose. This definitely made her feel somehow then she tried to step out of her comfort zone by acting more of an extrovert. Lady A tried to be what she wasn’t and it only made her feel worse and have low self esteem. She didn’t believe in herself. The point I’m trying to bring out here is that regardless of what people say or think about you just be you, be yourself.

There are situations you might find yourself in whereby people talk about you not being successful or being a failure in class, or how bad your looks are. They might even go extra mile to compare you to your peers. No matter how bad you feel, have one thing in mind that you will grow and become better at your own pace. Just because most of your mates are already employed and you’re still out there looking for job, you feel less of yourself because of “what people will say”. Have one thing in mind, what they say is invalid. Don’t go out if your way to please people or feel among because of what they will say.

These days I get less concerned about what people think about me. You might say you don’t like my way of life or my attitude pisses you off, well I’m glad it pisses you so just piss off out of my life too. If you don’t add value to my life then I see no reason why you should try to tell me things about myself that you don’t like. I think this world is too busy enough for people to start going around trying to bring someone down by their actions.

One final thought, as human beings there is something we should always try to build and that is: our self esteem and way of life. We should always strive to find ways to live a better life, learn new things, seek knowledge and become a better version of ourselves. Self esteem is also one thing we should build it matters a lot.

I hope you enjoyed my first post in my Chit Chat series? Let me know what you think about this topic. I’d love to know your feedbacks in the comments.

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5 thoughts on “Chit Chat #1 || What people think about you is invalid

  1. Thanks    for accepting and following my blog.

    I’m available to read your post at my convenient time.

    You have such an interesting topic I will love to read in
    your blog.

    I still remain  the simple blogger…..

    Peace ✌and Love ❤

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  2. I just skimmed through your post and the word you used are wow. And I must say, it really cool, it that gives people a chance to think about life.

    Please keep the motivational word coming.

    Thank you so much for adding an inspired words to me this morning.

    Peace ✌and Love ❤

    Liked by 2 people

    1. Thanks for this great comment 👏

      I do appreciate it. It gives me joy when fellow writers like you appreciate my work.

      And yes I will surely keep bringing more motivational posts to my readers. Thanks ❤❤


      1. Thank you! I appreciate your thoughtful response.

        Such an awesome way of replying someone. Thanks. Again
        As always your posts are incredible and I enjoying reading every word down till the last line. I must say that you are probably one of the excellent bloggers on WordPress that write inspired

        Also, I just posted: A VIEW OF WOMAN IN THE SOCIETY-
        Would love to know your views. Love to see your contributions on it. I’m always excited for your comment. 🙂

        You are welcome

        Peace ✌and Love ❤

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